Yes. I believe in love at first sight. We were created to love. We are capable to love.
But love doesn't just happen by chance. Love is a decision, a choice that we all make. That decision is either auto or otherwise. Conscious or not. And basically influenced by our belief system. Love at first sight is basically an auto-decision.
We have created an ideal situation based on what we have experienced in the past, we do additions and subtractions, multiplications and divisions to visualize that ideal. As time goes by we pile up beliefs, conclusions, decisions and judgements. These influence the choice we make every single moment, that includes Love. To love or not to love.
We make automatic choices every moment and most of these choices we are not aware of. And one of these is "Love At First Sight".
Yes. Love at first sight Can happen. And when two people at an instant decides to create a relationship, and keep at it, it will flourish.
The keywords here are "create", "decides" and "keep on creating it". A relationship cannot exist with just one person.
And any relationship for this matter will flourish for as long as they both continue to "create" it.
One person Can Love At First Sight without the other. But for the relationship to flourish it needs two to tango. If one person do not agree, there can be no relationship.
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