Love is a deep emotional feeling. And that feeling originates from one's decision, one's choice. That choice is influence from one's past. Whether one is conscious about it (which is ideal) or not.
We are capable of loving. "Falling in love" is a term we use for luck of a better definition of the chemistry which resulted from the unconscious automatic decision of one based on a stimuli or trigger. And "falling out of love" is a term we use when one is disillusioned and one then "chooses to stop creating" the love relationship anymore.
Yes, Love is a feeling, a deep emotional feeling. That feeling doesn't just fall from the sky, or just happen by chance. It is created, by ones will. It is the result of one's decision to love, governed by the power of choice, influenced and triggered by ones beliefs.
Nobody falls out of love, but that term is very handy to use to justify that one has stopped creating it. It is more acceptable to use because it frees one from being responsible of creating it--falling in and falling out. But it also starts a vicious cycle of falling in and falling out, because of that simple justification. Until one realizes that this feeling is a creation.
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